Today is my kind of day.

It really is a messy hair, old flannel, i-don't-care-if-I-look-like-a-boy kind of day. Today is all about COMFORT. Woke up early to throw a giant roast and root veggies in the crock pot to cook all day because Grandma and sis are coming over for dinner. And when I get home from work later, the house is going to smell phenomenal. Caleb is going to hang the lights when he gets home, and we will play Charlie Brown Christmas music while we feast. I am so excited. 4:30 couldn't come any faster!!!

So if you're an IG junkie like myself, I'm sure you've heard of PostalPix , the awesome app that PRINTS your IG pictures for you! They are great quality and competitively priced (which I just love). Caleb and I order our Postal Pix about every two months. They are just darling but unfortunately hard to fit into standard frames. With our stash of snaps ever growing, I was on the hunt for a display solution, when I came across some awesome ideas on Pinterest. There are a lot of great framing inspiration tutorials out there, for all different styles, so I adapted a few of my favorites and came up with an idea that worked for us! All you need is an old frame, wire cutters, needle nose pliers, a pen, a measuring tape or ruler, a framing wire kit ($2.50 at CVS) and a pack of clothes pins (about $1.50 at CVS).oh, and don't forget the star of the show: those cute little pictures! Since I am blogging from my phone ( would it then be called Phlogging!?... I like that.. ) I dont have the ability to post photo captions, so I will just tell you how I did it and post the photos after. Later I will clean it up on the computer to streamline and make it easier to follow! I hope this makes sense, if you have any questions feel free to ask! <3


1. Flip your frame over. With your tape measure, mark along the inside piece of wood where you would like to place your wires. I used the clothes pins to help place where I wanted them too. Keep in mind that you don't want your photos to be hidden by the photo above it. Leave enough space in between each row.

2. Carefully repeat the same step on the side parallel to the one you just measured. Use your pen again to mark where you will put your pins. Use your tape measure to ensure that both sides are evenly marked, as this will determine how straight your wire will be.

3. Place an I hook at each space you measured. They should be included in your framing kit, and they are super easy to install. Just put them where you want, press, and turn into the wood just like a screw. Make sure all of your hooks are vertical with the final twist, meaning that they are running parallel with the piece of wood they are screwed into.

4. After all hooks are in place, take your framing wire and using your wire cutters, cut into lengths about 4" wider than your frame. Cut the same amount of wire sections as you want rows. I have three rows of photos, so I cut three sections.

5. Using your pliers, feed each section into the corresponding hook. Tie and knot the wire to secure and attach the other end of each piece to the hook opposite from it. Make sure to use your pliers here to tighten after you tie your wire. If your rows look a little loose, you can try twisting your hook one or two more times into your frame to re tighten. I had to do this with my rows but you may be fine.

7. Now, you've got your structure down! Easy right!? All that's left is to hang your photos, do whatever feels right, it is YOUR masterpiece! I use the clothes pins. You could also use magnets, clips, twine, or any other attaching device you can think of to give your frame a little bit of "you!" now just frame and enjoy!

We are so excited and happy with our frame. We even decided we are going to rotate out the photos seasonally! So fun!! Ours is hanging right in our front room for us to enjoy everyday! It would also make a great gift, just give along with photos that are special or specific to the recipient! So good. I hope you were able to follow along. It's hard to describe how to do it, because it's so easy! So If you have any reservations about doing this project, reserve no more! It is SO easy and so cute! Do it do it do it!!! And show me when you're done!

What Dreams are Made of.

I think I should've been born in the 1800s or something. I am sick of all of these boring linear designs and the plain plain plain!! Give me something with character and a bit of history and I am awe struck. My little cousin just got married at the Grand Island Mansion off the delta, and my heart was flying out of the top of my head when I saw it! I was not only swooning because I was SO happy to see my cousin join lives with her love, but this PLACE! Gah!!! I wish I could live there! If only.... There were Van Gogh's and Monet's and Rembrandt's (replicas of course) everywhere. Glass door knobs with old brass locks, candle wall sconces and huge windows. There were the most charming Greek columns and sculptures of radiant women carved out of marble. A movie theatre with crushed red velvet and raught iron seats, and a single lane bowling alley with beautiful old pins. I could go on and on. But oh---to live surrounded by such pieces. To see all of that beauty every where you look. Maybe it is all about perspective- that there IS beauty everywhere, just in different forms. Which I do agree with. Definitely. I am not discrediting the beauty of the ordinary. But once in a while, tasting the extraordinary....well....that is what my dreams are made of. <3





Here are some photos I took of and at the Grand Island Mansion, and some of the surrounding scenery.

The Most Wonderful Time

I am thrilled to announce that the fall decorations have been packed away, and it is time for the most wonderful decorations of all!! I get so giddy around this time of year. Everything is just so much more....magical. The air we breathe is crisp and clean, the smells coming from home and hearth are so warm and welcome. I believe in my heart of hearts that this month is for lovers. Lovers of love, and of humanity, and of life itself. Passion is in abundance, and negativity in short supply. God willing- I am not the only one who believes this to be so. If all year were only so magical, maybe we would live in a more magical place. Let's vow- here and now- to make every day a bit more like this! Give just to give, love with no holds barred, and for the love of God (literally), ENJOY life in all of its goodness and splendor. Ah, maybe I'm just a wishful thinker, I do tend to dream the most magnificent dreams. But someone's got to! And if you won't, well... I'm still gonna!

American Picker

Caleb and I are headed to our local flea market for fresh produce and whatever else we can get our hands on! Stay TUNED:


Okay okay, so we didn't find anything terribly exciting this time. (last time we went with $40 for produce, and by the time we made our way down to the produce section, we only had $10 left!)
We parked near the produce enterance, since we had FAILED our mission last week, we went with a goal in mind. We were in and out in 20 minutes. So, nothing exciting to report.
Look at this pretty picture I found though, mmmm....i <3 veggies.

Tom Toms

Boy howdy, am I excited! Next Saturday we (my place of employ) are hosting a Style Your Sole event for Toms Shoes! Customers come in, and buy a pair of Toms, and artists custom paint designs on them at no extra charge! Oh and I am just SO thrilled, because I am one of the artists! Eeeek! At first, I was terrified, and dreading the event-kind of, because I the idea of ruining somebody's shoes made me utterly nauseous. Picture me, hand shaking uncontrollably to begin with, and then, out of no where, A SNEEZE ATTACK STRIKES ME DOWN AND MY HAND GOES A-WALL AND BAM! Crazy @$$ shoes, with streaks and stripes and blotches and stains instead of the clean lines and cures that I strive for. Oy Vey! Phew....Could you imagine!? I know...."what a drama queen". I know. Now that I've had some time to let it marinade a little, I have realized that the feeling of failure is exactly what I have been trying to overcome. So instead of letting it get to me, I've decided to have the mindset that "paint is forgiving, and I can go over my mistakes IF I should mess up." OH- and did I mention that I get a free pair from Toms?.....GAH! What?! I am so honored. Plus, for every pair purchased, Toms donates a pair to a child in need. It's a win win win. Customer gets some rockin shoezies, little children who so desperately need protection from the elements and the hard, unforgiving ground get a pair of shoes, and I get to get my name out there and get a pair! Woah baby. My mind is blown, SO MUCH GOOD! And soon-these little, beauties will be mine :)

Back into the game!

So, I find it terribly humorous that I used to be fluent in html, web design & the like, and could set up a custom designed profile page lickity split! Well, that was about 10 years ago, and since then, I have completely let my html genious go by the wayside. I FORGOT IT ALL!! I felt like an old woman trying to figure out how to set my page all pretty. However, I think I've started to make this little page feel like 'home.' Well, it's a start at least. Bare with me.....invisible classroom that I am speaking to.....while I construct and deconstruct and probably reconstruct this little chunk of internet land I have staked my claim on. Toodaloo!

-K

Lots and other things.

Randomly, i will find myself thinking about how things would have been had certain events in my life not transpired. Would I be who I am now? Like what I like now? Work where I work now?

Example: Had my friends parents not gotten divorced, I would not have moved out to where I attended higschool, said friend would not have worked where she worked, met who she met, through whom I met my Husband. Now, through a series of terribly unfortunate events, I do not see or speak to that friend anymore (and most days my heart aches wishing that this was not so). So it leads me to wonder, was she put in my life for the sole purpose of leading me, through a web of events, to meeting Caleb? Had i never met her, would I have met him?

Interesting, no?

Here's another for you:
As i stated previously, I have struggled with the fact that I did not go, even after being accepted, to art school. Yet here I am, 6 years later, a paid artist. How did that happen? ZERO professional art training. EVER. Not even a lick of it. Had I not chickened out, would I have gone, and stayed in San Francisco and gone down a completely different path?

Im sure i am not the only one who finds these things bizarre. BUTTTTTT I do know that my Loving Father knows the desires of his little (seemingly undeserving) children and that all the steps are ordered, and that everything happens for a reason. Not to confuse "God's will" with "free will", the two are quite different, and sometimes we choose things AGAINST his will, and are left to learn our way out of them, or learn how to live with them.And believe me, I have had my fair share of rebellion. All this to say, I am so thankful for everything that i have. For the events that have unfolded to make "my life." For all of the missed opportunities and lost friendships, I have grown to accept the fact, that even though some things we may regret, LIFE is everchanging. We must accept the things that are thrown our way, we must embrace what we DO have, and lovingly remember the things and people we have lost. I am moving forward, letting Yesterday's Ghost fly away from my memories.

My job, my husband, my friends...I know that there are so many things in my life that i take for granted everyday, that we ALL take for granted everyday. And I don't want to. I don't want that. I want to appreciate them and never forget that things happen for a reason. This is my lot. Even when I am face down, hands up, heart shattered, I.am.blessed. I.am.LOVED. I.am.THANKFUL.

Letting Go.

And I beat myself up over it; almost daily. "Why can't I just follow through?!" Age 17:Accepted to Art Institute in San Francisco> almost ready to move= chickened out. Age 18:tried going to school>going for a semester>getting sick>couldn't go. Tried again> car accident>couldn't go. Tried again>couldn't pay bills=stopped going. Age 23:The 365 Project that I strictly committed to> donezo by day 27. Kind of ironic, since they say it takes 28 days for an act to turn into a "habit". Had i given myself one more day, would I still be working on that project? And it happens time and again. I am constantly trying to find something that will spark my interest long enough to turn it into a passion. And then, without fail....I let myself down. I am my own worst enemy when it comes to these things. I want to prove myself wrong, as if my worth of a being, as a whole, is determined by how many projects I can complete. And I lay awake in the middle of the night. And I loose more sleep than I'd dare to admit. I just want to know that I can finish something I put my mind to. I have come to terms with the whole "school bit". I realize that getting really sick and getting in a terrible car accident are entirely out of my control. And I am working a job, without school, that I would have wanted to work with skills learned in school. So really, it saved me some money. I realize that knowing my track record, a 365 day project was just biting off more than I could chew, really. I actually started this blog for the same reason, "Maybe my lazy ass will be able to just maintain a blog." Seeing that my last post was just about a year ago, I just shake my head. Partly in disbelief, and partly in disappointment. I know that my worth is not in the projects that I finish. It's quite ridiculous for me to even think so. What I need is to surrender. To accept the fact that giant deadlines JUST. DONT. WORK. for me. I need small, attainable goals, that will lead to a bigger picture goal. And really, i dont even NEED them persay, I just want them. Oh, how I think way too much, and accept way too little. I just need to step back, and remember, that I am ever changing, and ever learning, and ever growing. And that I am ever more loved in this silent brokenness by the One who knows me best. Oh, what a ramble I have let out just now. Into a black abyss of nothingness, falling upon deaf ears and blind eyes. Is anyone even out there?.

Cheers,
-K